NorthStar embraces the philosophy of Motivational Interviewing and the Stages of Change theory. This means that we meet students where they are in their decision to change any and all parts of their lives. We use techniques that validate students' perspectives and encourage students to explore thoughts and feelings that could be barriers to change. We attempt to work with resistance by joining with the student and exploring resistance instead of using heavy confrontation and punishment. We also use Stages of Change theory to help parents understand their shifting role in parenting the young adult. Our goal is to help students and families move toward committing to, preparing for and taking action to change.